To: K-list
Recieved: 2004/10/13 12:40
Subject: Re: [K-list] forgiveness
From: mara lynn
On 2004/10/13 12:40, mara lynn posted thus to the K-list:
Janel,
This is what helped me.
No one gets to step off the wheel of karma, so we don't have to be the judge for them.
Surrender that to God/dess. All will right itself in divine time, not our time. We have to let go of wanting to control outcomes. Just get the lesson for yourself in the situation, and move on.
We can hold onto the unforgiveness as a way of trying not to feel our own pain. If feels like a double whammy; first someone did something that hurt us, then we have to go through another painful episode of letting go the junk we took on. But, by holding on to unforgiveness, you are just agreeing with them that you deserve to suffer and cart around this heavy load of crap. No one is paying a price for that except you. I agree with others; have someone help you. Its tough to pull yourself out of it. Mystress has a wonderful web site with much info.
They'll have to deal with the consequences of their actions eventually, so do we have to deal with ours. Everyone goes around misusing their energy, mostly because of ignorance until they learn otherwise. No one gets off the wheel of karma, until they become perfected. So we all do the best we can, huh.
Forgiving someone, including yourself, only means that you let go of the hurt inside you. Once you do that, you are free to make new choices now, that are in your best interest.
We can see the whole thing as a tremendous opportunity to grow into more compassionate, loving beings. Look at the Dalai Lama. When I see that smile from a man who didn't turn into a bitter resentful person, it gave me strength to see things differently.
Namaste,
Mara
Janel C <thebeautyofknivesAThotmail.com> wrote:
I'm writing because I would like some insight into my situation, which, as
the subject line suggests, has a lot to do with forgiveness.
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