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Recieved: 2004/09/30 10:38
Subject: [K-list] full moon
From: rt trn

On 2004/09/30 10:38, rt trn posted thus to the K-list:




Alicia, thank you for sharing a bit of yourself with us.
 
Alicia wrote:
I wished for a better man or a different type of man. there was much lack that I saw or percieved. then he felt that and he acted from it.
 
Alicia, It sounds like you are still admist a lot of suffering. I am not an expert on this subject, but I will write from the heart to you... You may take what I say with a grain of salt, OK? What you were going through, questioning the rightness of the relationship, is part of what 99% of women in relationships go through. YOU are NOT responsible for anybody but yourself - well, yourself and any young children... I mean to say, whether or not you made mistakes in your relationship (big or small), you did not make your husband react in whatever way he did - he may have made his own mistakes that he himself was responsible for. Please do not feel guilty or responsible.
 
 
Alicia wrote:
love and commitment to love is the most precious thing I think i will ever see or feel. I am sad cause I will never have that again.
 
It is good that you remember the love. It seems that the love from your husband would have forgiven you any mistakes and maybe now you need to forgive yourself. You do not need to 'stay' in this relationship now. You can carry it with you forever, the beauty of it. You are still free to seek new relationships at some point in your life, when you are ready. Remember to be open to whatever is sent your way. There might be another lesson for you to learn from a different relationship... If you are better equipped now to recognize love, then maybe that is the blessing that you have received and can now bestow on someone else who needs it.... when the time is right.
 
It is just a suggestion, that you do not give up on the possibilities of love in your future... all kinds of love..... as a matter of fact, why don't you give yourself a hug right now!
 
Thanks again for being so open and sharing with us.
 
Peace,
Jo.

                
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