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Recieved: 2004/04/15 02:09
Subject: RE: [K-list] How to transform aggression to love
From: Ladysee

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> bouncesATkundalini-gateway.org] On Behalf Of Rose
> Sent: Saturday, April 10, 2004 3:59 PM
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> Subject: [K-list] How to transform aggression to love
>
> snip...
> I never have this when other people are around. As a matter of fact, I
> always get compliments from others about my patience with the kids.
> Could it be the same, me trying to be the perfect dad to get approval
of
> others? I love my kids, I think, how can I be sure. All my free time I
> spend with them. But sometimes it feels like it is too much. I am glad
I
> am aware of what is going on. But I am looking for more insight in
where
> this aggression comes from and how I can process the energy that
flames
> up from deeply inside (fear?) into love before it gets poisoned and
> enters the physical world as aggression. I feel I need to transform
the
> root cause but I don´t seem to understand how. Feels like something
has
> its roots so deeply inside of me that I need to transform it now, not
> cover it up by external sources of joy like having fun with friends,
> getting into a new relationship or things like that.
>
> I am more that interested in your reactions on this subject - any
> suggestion is very welcome.
>
> Namaste,
>
> Rose;


Hi Rose,

I would suggest that the anger comes from a trigger - maybe an 'I'm
being taken advantage of' or a 'my boundaries are being invaded' kind of
trigger. If it feels like too much, listen - you may be playing the
martyr role; which is probably not good for either you or the kidz.
Anger responds when other feelings are denied and/or disallowed. Look
beneath it.

And apologize to your kidz - let them know its about you and not about
them...that's what I do.

Love,

Lady C

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