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Recieved: 2003/12/12 15:06
Subject: Re: [K-list] Empathy (Resend)
From: Erik Edwards
On 2003/12/12 15:06, Erik Edwards posted thus to the K-list:
On Wed, 2003-12-10 at 12:42, Mystress Angelique Serpent wrote:
> I think I did, a few weeks back.
I saw but didn't get it.
>
> When I was in high school, ... but my empathy follows my attention
> and I did not know how for it not to, or how to be sovereign in myself and
> not engage it, so I went with it.
Schools (elementary on) could use classes on this stuff, some real world
practical stuff. Would have been a lot more interesting. Imagine what
kindergarten could be <grin>.
> Discernment takes time. The power chakra rules this issue. Notice your
> "gut reaction" when you think of telling them, or not telling them.
> Occasionally the insights are gifts to be offered, but most often they are
> just for you. For your own growth and insight; remember that what you see
> is yourself reflected.
>
Hmm... I must be a kaleidoscope in a hall of mirrors :)
> When your discernment tells you to share, empty your mind and focus on
> the recipient. Your heart will provide the perfect words without your
> needing to think at all, about what to say. Empty vessel, conduit for
> Goddess to speak through.
>
When this occurs are you able to remember what you said?
> You may notice later, that this state comes with a complete lack of
> self consciousness, self awareness. You will not notice at the time,
> because the lack of self awareness means you can't!
>
Such as speaking something that hits home, but then passing from ones
existence?
> The shadow side of that "Road to hell of good intentions"
I heard once that one's intentions can be seen by the results, so if
hell is perceived...
> 2.) Weak boundaries and sense of self.
> If there was abuse, especially sexual but any kind of abuse in your
> childhood, then you probably never grew proper boundaries or sense of self,
> in the first place and K. is bringing that to your attention.
>
This is so. My learned boundaries leave me asking "What is healthy?"
> a) Fill you with you, and there is no room for other people's stuff. "To
> thine own self be true." "Serve Goddess within yourself, and have none
> before."
Ok, creation is within one's self.
> The ones that say "I" are more likely to come from you, depending on how
> vocal your inner critic is. Follow your heart. The chakra opens to truth
> and thoughts of your unique purpose, the power chakra tightens at
> projections and boundary violations. Both together, are discernment: your
> navigation system for the physical plane.
>
> c ) Surrender everything, and grow a new self, from within. A sense of
> your self, your desires and uniqueness that comes wholly from the inside,
> from the soul purpose. Your truth of who you want to be, and not what
> others want you to be for them.
This must be different from what I've learned surrender to be.
>
> 3) Neediness.
>
> If your self esteem is very dependent on getting approval, validation
> and compliments, then you are not getting fed adequately, from within. You
> are holding out a begging cup for love, and people will use it as a trash
> can. That is just human nature, and the higher purpose is to persuade you
> to let go of the addiction, stop depending on external love and validation.
>
> a) Connect to source, inwardly, or by grounding into the sun and earth
> chakras
Do you mean the sun and earth can be found within too?
-Erik
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