To: K-list
Recieved: 2003/05/16 06:35
Subject: Re: [K-list] life is cruel
From: hbrost
On 2003/05/16 06:35, hbrost posted thus to the K-list:
Shelle, Dear Shelle,
Here it is, eight months after my Skye's departure from this earthly plane, and I'm still talking to her picture and crying buckets. Let it come. Mourn your dear Sandy for however long you need to. Just think about the anger, perhaps in different terms. Sandy's leaving was what it was -- look, here's a good explanation: You, and everyone you know, including Sandy, were BORN right on time, right? ;-) Death is a part of life too, Shelle. It happens to all of these "garages" with a soul. (YES, animals HAVE souls!!! At least "beloved pets" do.) So why not die on time? I'll expire from this world right on time...so will you...so did Sandy and your grandfather. Right on time.
My anger came from quite a different perspective. Now, first I should say that I don't have human children, nor a husband. I have Dalmatians...and Rose. When Skye left, I had a rude awakening to the fact that my comfortable life wasn't going to continue with the beings currently involved. My friends, all my 'children' were going to leave before I do. I've given SO much love to my Dals, so much caring -- they're my kids, IOW. So my anger was directed at the Universal Architect and H/Her faulty plan! Right. Since then I've come to this conclusion:
PETS ARE ANGELS. They come into your life for a reason and leave for a reason. Many times, in fact, they take on illnesses you may have, feelings and emotions that you may have had, IOW, karma. Our beloved pets take our karma, if that's their purpose. But not only that. Sometimes K can't seem to make a dent in us, no matter. Many times pets will force the issue. I know my Skye did.
Shelle, there isn't a moment yet when I can talk, without tears, about my Skye. I didn't read your email without tears. I feel for you, Honey, I really do. Let your K energies bring visits -- they will be healing. You'll see Sandy in health (as you already wrote) and peace --which is how they are, our pets. I have no doubt that any time you 'see' Sandy, it will be in perfect health, and in fact way younger than he was when he left. This is how it is with pets and departed human friends and family. Younger. Vibrant. HAPPY! The way we should be??? ;-)
For most people, the death of a pet is worse than the death of a human companion. Why? I don't know, it's just what "they" say. Maybe it's the unconditional love they give to us.
Shelle, I mourn your loss with you, yet celebrate the forward movement of your journey because of the loss.
Love,
Hety
P.S. Just know too, that ALL animals connected to us, your Sandy, my William, my Skye, my friend's Shelldon, ...are all there for Sandy. He's not alone, not now or ever! HB
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