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Recieved: 2003/01/19 16:25
Subject: Re: [k-list] need support
From: Lbra782595
On 2003/01/19 16:25, Lbra782595 posted thus to the K-list:
In a message dated 1/19/03 2:44:05 AM Central Standard Time, Laura.Edwards AT_NOSPAM sbcglobal.net writes:
>He says he is dialogueing with God and that God will walk the earth this Monday and paradise on earth will reign.
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As difficult as this may sound at first, try to be accepting of his vision. It may pass on it's own, but if you can give him support afterwards is will shorten the time it takes him to recover.
Setting aside the fact that this point of view has been "traditionally" considered "delusional", is this such a terrible thing? Spiritual awakenings manifest in as many ways as there are people on the planet. Perhaps God is coming on Monday and will manifest himself in your boyfriend's realization of his own Divinity. Paradise will then indeed reign for him. Although it may take longer to completely manifest than he currently realizes.
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>He apparently has some history of bipolar disorder but has had only two or three episodes in the last 30 years.
When you speak to him on Tuesday ask him if he has prescription medication.
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>I asked him if he thought this could be some sort of spiritual awakening and he said yes, he is God's anointed.
There have been times I have felt like "God's Annointed" also. This is the meaning of the term "Christ". It literally means, "the annointed one. Now also bear in mind that his trouble may lie in wanting everyone else to know he's been "annointed". Most people aren't ready to hear that so anyone who claims to be annointed will probably be considered "looney" and locked away.
In my study of Kriya yoga, it is taught that the "annointing process" takes place in the pineal gland. When the cerebrospinal fluid comes into proper balance, the pineal gland begins secreting neuro-transmitters that promote the opening of the third eye. The problem here lies in the persons peace of mind. If the person has not developed a great enough level of inner peace, the premature opening of the third eye creates an imbalance.
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>I asked him if God doesn't, for whatever reason, walk the earth on Monday, would he consent to get medical attention and he told me not to contact him anymore until Tuesday. He didn't say whether or not he would seek help.
If God does not manifest quite the way he invisions on Monday, he will need all the support he can get. Give him your love and do not judge him. If he will listen, tell him of all the things you have learned here and refer him to the Spiritual Emergence Network. These people are trained K-friendly professionals. They will be able to help in a constructive, non-judgemental way.
>He lives alone and I don't think he is in danger or is a danger to others but I am worried about him.
Get in touch with him early on Tuesday. Don't give him time to stew.
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>Has anybody on this list had a similar experience and can you give me any advice as to how best to deal with the situation?
My own awakening was rather stormy, but not quite as intense as this. I had no support afterwards. My family and friends had no comprehension of what was happening to me. It took a while to integrate what happened to me into something resembling a functional personality capable of normal interaction with other humans. It is my firm belief that if I had responsible, knowlegable feedback early on, I would have avoided a long period of depression. Love and acceptance for him will go a long way in aiding him to "get back on his feet".
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>I am worried, sad, and lonely. I feel bereft and helpless. We have been seeing each other for only about 6 months and he never told me he had any history of bipolar disorder until this past week. He did not say whether or not he takes medication for it.
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If he has medication, urge him to stay on it, but don't force the issue. SEN is a wonderful resource. If anyone can help, they can. This is their new website, they have changed their name slightly, but it is still the same people.
http://www.cpsh.org/
With Love and Compassion,
Jason B
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