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Recieved: 2002/12/02 02:57
Subject: Re: [K-list] navigating duality and mutuality
From: r1ta_metermaid

On 2002/12/02 02:57, r1ta_metermaid posted thus to the K-list:

Hello Laura -

--- In Kundalini-GatewayATnospamy..., "Laura " <dafmobileATnospamh...> wrote:
<snip>
>
> i generally forget
> that it is ok for me to love her, it is what was given to me,
actually i
> turn on it and try to get rid of it, i tell it i am not appropriate
and it
> is my responsibility to change into what she needs or we won't be
able to
> stay friendsLaura - What Holly and Laura have said makes sense. And something to
think about, too. Yes, "it is what was given to you" for whatever
reason... And no, maybe she loves you just as you are? Maybe you
shouldn't change a thing? Changing just to please another is slippery
business, that... Finding and negotiating mutuality and non-duality
is a process in which change can and does happen, but it happens in a
mutually-responsive fashion, not unilaterally... Well, not sure if
that made sense... But my gut says maybe she and you have some of the
same fears?

namaste,
rita
>
> yikes, vulnerability,
>
> love,
> laura


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