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To: K-list
Recieved: 2002/12/02 01:54
Subject: RE: [K-list] navigating duality and mutuality
From: Lori Worley

On 2002/12/02 01:54, Lori Worley posted thus to the K-list:


Laura said:
 i just have a really hard time holding and remaining in that stance. it
feels like what i keep trying to ask myself to do, or usually i feel i have
no choice in the matter and this drives me bolistic. i generally forget
that it is ok for me to love her, it is what was given to me, actually i
turn on it and try to get rid of it, i tell it i am not appropriate and it
is my responsibility to change into what she needs or we won't be able to
stay friends

- Laura, I was thinking that this is what you need to surrender - the belief
that you have to remain in a stance of not loving your friend. Perhaps you
can send love to the aspect of yourself that feels deep love for your
friend, rather than try to eradicate this side (in my experience this only
makes the problem bigger and more difficult to deal with). It's an aspect
of you. Accept it and love it fully and give it room to express itself
freely, if not in a sexual way then maybe with writing or singing or
drawing, whatever speaks to you, and see what happens.

Lori

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