To: K-list
Recieved: 2002/11/12 10:18
Subject: Parenting ourselves Re: [K-list] Emotionalism
From: lionessbleu1

Dear Lori,

This is part of the work I do in my Alchemical Hypnotherapy
practice. Inner Child work is one of the first steps, not the only
step. Learning to parent ourselves is just as important as rescuing
and protecting the inner child.

Sometimes we can't parent those lost parts of ourselves because we
have no role models for which to pattern ourselves. Sometimes just
having insight into why the way we are is not enough to facilitate
transformation.

Fortunately, there are inner guides who will fulfill the role for
you as loving emotionally mature parents perfectly. They can be
found in our meditation practice or going on an inner journey. For
those who never had the parents they wished and wanted for, these
gentle, loving spirits are waiting to be asked to step into that
role.

Just like the Divine Beloved or the Inner Mate there is a Divine
Adult Father and Mother. We are fortunate that these guides exists
independently of our conscious ego.

For those who cannot trust the human forms animal spirits can make
great parents.

As above so below, as within so without. In the realm of the Spirit
as in the realm of the Physical.

Lovely blessings,
Susan

--- In Kundalini-GatewayATnospamy..., "Lori Worley" <lori.worleyATnospamb...>
wrote:
> My response to this is that if the emotions are around and they are
> juvenile, this means that they are lingering from childhood
trauma or loss,
> and the only way to clear them is for that person to work through
them.
> Unfortunately they can't be meditated away - they have to be re-
experienced
> for us to come out the other end. We get the opportunity to
understand our
> behaviours very clearly then, and we can have a choice then to do
things
> differently.
>
> If you feel you've cleared all your issues, perhaps you can help
others who
> haven't by 'parenting' them. Show them love and guide them in the
way that
> they weren't by their own parents. To me this would mean pointing
out
> dramas without contempt or expectation that the person will
change. If you
> feel so inclined, that is. If not, then don't.
>
> Lori
>
>
>

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