To: K-list
Recieved: 2002/11/10 11:58
Subject: Re: [K-list] Who Let The Dogs Out?...Dear Hety...don't hate me...
From: Druout
On 2002/11/10 11:58, Druout posted thus to the K-list: In a message dated 11/9/2002 8:56:34 PM Pacific Standard Time,
mystressATnospamfire-serpent.com writes:> You did not even
> have the grace to apologise.
>
and Joyce responds
>
> For what???
> For posting private mail to the list. Simple.
I think it's interesting that you choose to respond to a rebuke rather than
to my mail getting back on subject. :))
Why is it that we so often tend to react so strongly to criticism? Our first
reaction tends to be defensive, so we lose the message in the rush to defend
ourselves. And then there is the "if s(he) can do it, why can't I! " LOL Is
all this a carryover from childhood when we so often feel punishment is
unjust?
Criticism often teaches us more than praise, but we simply don't want to
listen to the message(s).
Love, Hillary
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