To: K-list
Recieved: 2002/08/18 08:36
Subject: Re: [K-list] Re: Love Block
From: jlb
On 2002/08/18 08:36, jlb posted thus to the K-list:
I was just soliciting responses on how to deal with the anger that these drivers engendered in me.
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Sorry, but the whole thing sort of struck me funny.
I don't know that I have any advice on how to deal with anger other than to understand it fully and try to determine where it is really coming from .. in you, I mean.
But the serious advice that I would have given would be along the lines of something I read in the Celestine Prophecy. Observation is Power. I really found that to be true. Especially in a hectic driving situation like that.. it is extremely stressful.. to me at least, because it taxes your total awareness.
But I think if one can expand the aura of awareness by looking farther up the road, look farther back in the mirror, both sides, up down.. check your gages.. and your cargo ( you learn that in trucks ) and try not to ever be "surprised" by some other asshole. You are one to the other guy too ya know? But if some crazy is bobbing and weaving or running the slalom coming up behind.. you wont be caught off guard when he passes on the wrong side and cuts you off too close. (saves on traffic tickets btw )
Anyways.. that helped me.
>And your suggested methods ran contrary to the way I deal with problems.
But isn't that what you are really after in a forum like this.. input. Maybe the way you deal with problems is the problem ?
I guess that's why the whole thing struck me humorously.. cuz I been there and I recognized it as mainly just a need to vent..
Here's my CW
Try singing as you drive.. or pretend you are having a heated discussion with an invisible person next to you.. scream point.. wave your arms.. be as melodramatic as you can.. Make the other asshole do all the guessing. Talk about him.. to your invisible friend... people can sense when they are being talked about. Tell your "friend" what an inconsiderate, idiot jerk he is.
"Just because I am paranoid doesn't mean they are not out to get me"
In good humor,
jlb
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