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Recieved: 2002/08/18 08:12
Subject: Re: [K-list] Digest Number 1151
From: mundaneyogi
On 2002/08/18 08:12, mundaneyogi posted thus to the K-list: Some good stuff in your reply Steve. Thanks.
--- In Kundalini-GatewayATnospamy..., Stephen Kowalchuk <spkATnospamk...> wrote:
> ...
> If the other driver is truly a danger, it also makes it perfectly
legitimate for
> me to pick up my cell phone and dial 911, reporting this driver to
the police. Not because I need to get one over on the driver, but
> because someone could get killed.
>
Indeed. I always carry my cell phone, and once in a great while I
have to use it.
>
> ...
> The aggressive driver is looking for a certain amount of
> resistance to his aggressiveness. This tension is important to the
> illusion of dominance, and keeps the driver focused on
> the "game". If one suddenly releases all the tension, it's like
> letting go of the rope in a tug of war. No need to wave or
> anything, I don't think anyway. Just totally let go, and laugh
> out loud. The other driver has no idea what the hell to do.
>
Now this is an interesting comment, because that's exactly my
reaction when someone does something truly over-the-top. I saw this
car cut across three lanes of traffic from the far right-hand lane,
without even signaling, to make a left-hand turn. I laughed my a$$
off. Maybe I can laugh more often at this stuff. It's a release
and a transformation of negative energy -- sweet.
> when that moment of confusion occurs and the "rope is slack", the
> aggressor is really open to suggestion.
Good point.
> ...
> By reframing my perspective, I save myself a gray hair here and
> there.
>
Reframing, transforming energy... Whatever you want to call it, it's
good advice. I appreciate your time and concern Steve. Thanks!
Peace and Love,
Ken
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