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Recieved: 2002/07/23 13:08
Subject: Re: [K-list] Re: empathy (was: New here and very scared!! Kathi)
From: Mystress Angelique Serpent
On 2002/07/23 13:08, Mystress Angelique Serpent posted thus to the K-list:
At 10:27 AM 19/07/02, Kathi wrote:
> I am a very empathetic person and the pain of everyone else's
> suffering, as well as my own, is just more than I can bear at
> times! What a burden, huh???? Sometimes I just can't believe all that I
> feel for mankind!! I can't even watch the news anymore, because it makes
> me severely depressed. What a sad world we live in, and yet I believe
> that each of us chose our life events.
I wrote this for another list, recently... perhaps you will find some
value in it.
> I've been dealing with too much empathy, forever!! I finally have a
> handle on it because I finally "got" what I was doing to cause it. Took
> responsibility for my experience.
>
> STOP projecting your energy. Projecting energy is invasive, no matter
> what the "road to hell" of your "good intentions." Do not project love
> and light onto people unless you have their conscious, verbal consent.
>
> Do not B*tch about anyone in word, thought or deed... negative
> projections are black magic, and you need not be surprised if the karmic
> feedback is a punch in the gut that has you on the floor moaning with
> stomach ache. You did it to yourself. Sounds bad at first, like I am
> blaming you for how you feel... but what I am really telling you is that
> you have the power to change it.
>
> Power chakra is at the stomach, and it rules the issues of free will,
> Divine will and boundaries. Projecting anything non-consensually is not
> being respectful of boundaries. Karma will bite your ass.
>
> If you have a problem with someone, it is *your* problem. Your
> perception, your projection. What you see, is yourself reflected. This is
> a cosmic truth, and the nature of perception. What we see is filtered
> through a lens of our experiences, opinions, beliefs, attitudes. We do
> not see the world as it is, we see the world as WE are. Your eyes see
> patterns of light, abstract till they are filtered and interpreted
> through the unconscious mind.. which interprets what you see according to
> what you believe about the world. Stuff just Is.
>
> You get what you pray for, and every thought is a prayer... Every
> thought!! Especially thoughts with any kind of emotional energy behind
> them. If you are praying for someone to be "better" then it is because
> you have a negative judgment about them, you think they need to change...
> it is a control game. How do you feel when people do that to you?
>
> Power chakra carries the issues of control, hierarchies and status
> games. If you think you are more enlightened than someone and they do not
> have enough light in themselves, that is a negative projection. You are
> stepping on their head to raise yourself up... all covered over with an
> ego idea of your superiority and a lie of compassion. It is not real.
> Good intentions = road to hell.
>
> God-dess is all that is, Love is all that is.. anywhere you think love
> is not, is your illusion. Change your opinions, your projections.
>
> If you think someone needs help, or needs your love and light you are
> actually projecting a negative opinion, that they are not Divine
> perfection, not capable of manifesting their own love and light. It is
> invasive like Jehovahs Witnesses on your doorstep telling you that you
> need to be "saved." Do not project neediness onto people. The other side
> of the coin in duality space, is that projecting neediness onto someone
> is not kind. It is not "namaste".
>
> That's duality. Karma... what you put out comes back multiplied, *and*
> every action has an equal and opposite reaction. Get in the habit of
> looking for the underlying fear behind every good intention, then you
> will have better discernment.
>
> There is no such thing as selflessness, unless you are so completely
> self realized that your individual ego identity is fully merged with the
> All... in which case, you only see perfection anyways. Be honest about
> what you are getting out of any interaction. Be honest about your
> selfishness, honour it! You have to love yourself before you can love
> anyone else, so love yourself, first. Look for the fear, the lack of
> faith behind your "selfless" motives. No martyrdom.
>
> Empathy is a natural part of being human. If someone is completely
> without empathy, we call them a sociopath. Some people are more empathic
> than others, consciously, but... **Everyone** is totally empathic,
> telepathic and enlightened, on an unconscious level. Some people, like us
> allow the information into consciousness... but the unconscious of the
> sleepers is still perfectly aware of when you are projecting energy, and
> it will project stuff right back at you.
>
> The truth is that thinking someone needs "fixing" is a negative
> projection, and negative is what you will get back, multiplied. Your
> "love bombs" will stir up their karma and it will flow to you as the
> provocateur.
>
> Projecting love and light onto someone is taking responsibility for
> how they feel... you are being God for them, and karma follows
> responsibility... so you will get their karma. Especially if they do not
> want to change or be fixed... you will get stuck in their karma, because
> you cannot let go of what is not yours.
>
> Probably you will end up blaming them for how you feel, because that
> is an unconscious way of projecting your karma onto them. Making them be
> God for you so you can give the karma back... but it is not empowering in
> the long term because you are giving away your Divine power. Free Will is
> Goddess' law. You choose how you feel. You choose love or fear. It may be
> that the choices are unconscious, old emotional baggage making fearful
> reactions.. but it is still a choice.
>
> If you want to blame someone, blame God! That is where responsibility
> belongs. Shake your fist and have a tantrum, B*tch and blame spirit for
> *everything!* I promise, lightning will not strike you, and you will feel
> much better after.
>
> Take the stone from your own eye. Turn your energy inward. On a higher
> level, you are All and All is Divine... there is nobody else, so aim your
> energy towards your own Divine Self, and it will handle everything better
> than your ego judgments of what someone else needs, ever could. Turn your
> energy inwards, and it will become a radiance of pure sweetness, that
> will carry the power of synchronicity and miracles such as the conscious
> mind could never manifest.
>
> Do not project energy horizontally, unless you have clear consent to do
> so. Project it inward and upward. Goddess has it handled. Anything else
> is lack of faith, and that too will give you a power chakra tummy ache...
> or a tight feeling around the bottom of your ribs that makes it hard to
> get a full breath. Power chakra rules the breath, which is life.
>
> Do not blame other people for how you feel. That is giving your power
> away, making them be God for you and also projecting your karma onto
> them. Karma follows responsibility. Giving someone responsibility for how
> you feel is projecting your power and your karma onto them, and the
> karmic feedback will whack you.
>
> Nobody but you and your Spirit can choose how you feel. Blaming
> someone is making them be God for you. Disempowering... and the more you
> do it, the more you will feel victimized by the world. What you put out
> comes back multiplied, why pray victimhood?
>
> Use this affirmation: "I resolve to use only my own energy, especially
> in a social situation." Presto, no more unwanted empathy. No more leaking
> energy via projections.
>
> Do not use ESP to spy on people. Unless you are a mother with underage
> children, or someone has asked you to scan them then it is the same as
> any other kind of invasion of privacy. Psychic peeping toms get smacked
> by karma.
>
> Where your attention goes, your energy goes and your empathy follows.
> Keep your nose in your navel and your eyes on your own soul. Mind your
> own business. Everyone is God of their own lives, whether they know it or not.
>
> Do not fantasize about people. Creative visualization is a power of
> magic, and so projecting your fantasies onto people is invasive. Respect
> the power of your thoughts, and your thoughts will have more power.
> Thought, word, deed. Deeds are more powerful than words, and words are
> more powerful than thoughts. If you are thinking love and speaking love
> but acting from fear then the action cancels out the words and thoughts.
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