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Recieved: 2002/06/26 16:53
Subject: Re: [K-list] Digest Number 1061 -- Brett
From: Christopher Wynter
On 2002/06/26 16:53, Christopher Wynter posted thus to the K-list:
At 27/06/02, you wrote:
>I agree with your assessment of validation and approval wholeheartedly. I
>believe that wanting approval is a major source of negative feelings and
>emotions for all humanity. Along with wanting control and security (the
>other 2 bugaboos). (These are basic tenets of The Sedona Method.) I'm trying
>diligently to let go wanting all of these.
Brett ..
Before you go beating up on yourself with this one, its not your fault -
nor, is it in many ways humanity's fault .. don't make it wrong, but, with
a little understanding, you may see how the pattern emerges from even
before birth ..
What has been "lost_sight_of" is
that this "tribal" consciousness of the species is inherent in the
gross survival_life_support function of the individual cell.
whereby there is strength_in_numbers and individual cells
conglomerate together to form the organism which becomes
the organ - just as many organs become the body.
it is an expression_of_the_energy_of_living
So - within the individual, there is a need to find the matching "tribe"
and we have been taught that this is the way we should behave in order
to "fit in". We learned this within our mother's womb, and after birth,
we learned that, in order not to raise the ire of mother, there were
certain codes of behaviour that were to be learned -
This is the byproduct of the nuclear family - whereas in the more tribal
cultures, there is a mother - but - the upbringing of the child is part of
a much larger, more extended "familiar" circle.
As children, this memory was often discouraged by the needs of mother,
projected on the child, that the child should conform to what ensured
mother and fathers survival as a nuclear unit - within the niche they had
carved out for them selves in what they thought was the society that
fulfilled their own survival needs ..and so the urge of the child to find its
own "relationship" was defined to meet certain conditions.
This is mind encoded behaviour that is rooted in the function of the
survival mechanism of life itself ..
so, don't make it wrong - but try to understand
how this microcosmic mechanism has found an expression
in your own need to find some acceptance, recognition
and sense of belonging ..
and also to find someone or some tribe that feels "right"
which can be very difficult until all of the members
of your own inner tribe -
the personalities that make up your persona +
the organs that make up your body +
the cells that make up these organs +
the inherent consciousness of life itself
are all functioning in full and open communication ..
which is, very often, in conflict with all that the mind
has been taught as a conditioned imprint on the
"way_to_behave" according to society and religious dictates.
From its original roots - SPIRIT is a corruption of "The Breath of Life".
It is the essence of "Living" that is the dominant, inherent
intelligence and integrity of each cell - the common sense
of all of the cells of your body.
Seeking approval and acceptance, recognition, belonging "out_there"
is a reflection of what is going on within the body.
acceptance and rejection of the inner tribal members
is the root of all disease ..
and the organ that becomes the outcast through denial
or non acceptance of its expression and function
becomes cancerous.
When you find that freedom from "dis_ease"
within the organs of the body,
then the personalities will find peace ..
and this is the impetus behind what some call "kundalini"
which is why kundalini, spiritual emergence, prana, chi, n'um,
the inner spirit, the holy spirit ..
by whatever name you want to call it ...
IS NOT SOME EGO TYPE GAME OF THE MIND
not an object of worship or vilification
to be learned about, toyed with or treated as a joke
but is a matter of sanity and insanity
life and death ..
Does this help ..
Christopher Wynter
http://www.kundalini-gateway.org
http://www.domin8rex.com/serpent/spirit/kindex.htm
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