To: K-list
Recieved: 2002/03/30 09:48
Subject: RE: [K-list] Love
From: Rich

Hi Lillian,

I was discussing this with someone not so long ago and came to the
conclusion that especially in the West people tend to chop and choose
who and what they love. I realise this is the same also in the East to a
degree but not quite so extensible.

A lot of my love patterns came from my parents and people around me in
my early years and me mimicking their inner and outer behaviours. It's
easy to close down on love when we are confronted by fear and I believe
this is the exact opposite of love.

To me unconditional love is about loving the things I hate, loving my
fears. Eventually they dissolve and it becomes easier to love more.
Loving everything without judging or qualifying it first. When I act
from the heart this is natural but when I live in the mind my fears and
ego are ever present.

Unconditional love also sits with compassion and wisdom if we see that
all is a part of us and that it is all a game and nothing really
matters.

_ _
\_/ Rich

> -----Original Message-----
> From: lillianferracone [mailto:lillianferraconeATnospammsn.com]
> Sent: 30 March 2002 14:07
> To: K-list ; SoitPPATnospamaol.com
> Subject: Re: [K-list] Love
>
> Hi everyone, What does it mean to love unconditionally? Lillian
> ----- Original Message -----
> From: <SoitPPATnospamaol.com>
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> Sent: Friday, March 29, 2002 10:49 PM
> Subject: Re: [K-list] Love
>
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> > I may be moving on, but not moving away Ben. In this case, which
may not
> be
> > the case in all situations, my girlfriend will still be coming
around. I
> met
> > her through my cousin (who lives with me) and she's still a good
friend of
> my
> > cousin and will continue to be a good friend to me. The idea of
owning a
> > person in a relationship, the "being together" aspect, for her, is
ending.
> > For me, it never existed, I'd transcended such limited thinking for
the
> most
> > part before I'd even met her. What I do need to stop, and move away
from,
> is
> > allowing myself to get caught up in the energetic clutching, (like
Isis
> > mentioned). That type of subjugation simply doesn't serve me any
longer,
> it
> > has to go, the entire kitten caboodle, in order for me to feel at
ease
> with
> > who I really am and continue to follow my will to Love
unconditionally. I
> > won't let Elisen down, I really love her. She holds a vision for me
that
> > cannot be replaced.
> > ~Aaron
> >
> >
> >
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