To: K-list
Recieved: 2002/03/29 14:02
Subject: Re: [K-list] loving mates (was Re: Digest Number 930)
From: Bryan

----- Original Message -----
From: "Magdalene Meretrix" <magdaleneATnospammagdalenemeretrix.com>
To: "kundalini" <K-list >
Sent: Wednesday, March 27, 2002 5:36 PM
Subject: [K-list] loving mates (was Re: Digest Number 930)

> At 08:57 AM 3/26/02 -0800, Silverstar wrote:
>
> >I live with a man that does
> >not know how to give love on a regular basis, let alone receive it
> >consistently

Already responded to that

> In short, he does none of the "little romantic things" that I'd been
taught
> that men are "supposed" to do. Men in books and movies do these things.
> Advice columnists tell people to do these little things to make their
> relationship better. "Everyone" is "supposed" to aim towards these sorts
of
> behaviors in relationship.
>
    With LOVE, Dear

   Been taught --- by someone else on " How it should be." This is a belief
that was inflicted on you. Do you believe that buying things will make you
happy? The commercials tell us it will and we end up believing it. "you are
going to grow up --- get a job-- get married and have children." is the
programming and then this becomes a life goal and if you don't do it -- you
and society label it failure. point is --- societies programming of how "IT"
should be can destroy your ability to find what is right for you as a free
spirit and an individual with special needs.This is particularly a killer
for women ---Oops the biological clock is running out so I have to have a
child now.Society has programmed that if a woman doesn't have children--
they are a failure as a woman.
Check if your beliefs of what you want are your desires or someone's
programming of WHAT YOU SHOULD WANT.

Bryan

http://www.kundalini-gateway.org
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