To: K-list
Recieved: 2002/01/09 10:58
Subject: Re: [K-list] Kundalini dating/draining energy
From: José H

> This person also says that it can be dangerous for a fully awakened K
person
> to make love with some non-K person as some are "energy vampires" and will
> make the K person severely depressed afterwards. Is this true?
>

I agree with others it will usually only wake up the non-K-awake person and
start things moving over there.
It IS possible though that people drain your energy, but not everybody who
is not k-awake does so. If somebody is not taking any responsibility for his
or her own life and needs, and projects all of his needs onto you - this
will drain your energy.
My partner is not K-awake yet. He used to drain my energy so I had to break
off the relationship. The shift came when he started to feel and realize
what it means to take on your own life, your own needs, your own things to
work out and stopped projecting everything onto me (me having to be either
his dominant mother - or the perfectly loving wife or mother that makes up
for missed love and attention - anything but myself)
Then a relationship that did not drain my energy became possible - where I
can still be my partners spiritual mother, guiding him in this sense, but no
more worldly mothers - I told him I want to be a mother to his child - but
no way to him - I need a man beside me to raise that child, he will have to
take on his own spiritual responsibility to guide that child into life.

So I guess you would be fine with a non-K-awake partner, when he or she has
a sense of responsability for his or her own life and process - on the way
to awakening.

Love and blessings,
Jose

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