To: K-list
Recieved: 2001/11/19 18:13
Subject: Re: [K-list] Love
From: Jmu123us
On 2001/11/19 18:13, Jmu123us posted thus to the K-list:
--- In Kundalini-GatewayATnospamy..., druoutATnospama... wrote:
>
In a message dated 11/14/2001 2:57:16 AM Pacific Standard Time,
> kateATnospamf... writes:
>
> > BUT - help - - attachment alert!! Intuition, not feelings tell me I've
> found
> > my partner. Or if not my partner - than a life long deep friendship. It's
> > amazing - we are the same yet opposite. What he's poor at I'm good at and
> > vice versa - we were on this increcible voyage of discovery - mental,
> > physical, spiritual - we were literally expanding each other. It was
> > exhilerating. BUT he's totally cut off from the emotional. (Issues with
> his
> > mother) Claims to have no feelings for me. Anyway - now he's off shagging
> > half of Bristol. He wanted various bits of me - but not the whole. Plus
> > bits of various other women.... Like pick and mix... I ended it. Have
> cut
> > off completely.
> >
> > Oh dear - bit of a come down eh?! ADVICE GLADLY ACCEPTED OH ENLIGHTENED
> > ONES. Have I got it wrong? Was he just a temporary manifestation/catalyst
> > of my inner union??? It hurts but at least it's containable. Before I
> would
> > have been flooded...
>
Dear List,
Some of this advice sounds well grounded, though i count that true love does also exist.
Perhaps Shakespeare said it best;
"Love all, trust few."
In any relationship, especially one of purported "love," it is wise to ask your "Higher Self" to reveal to you the true nature of the person you "love. Especially since we can be blinded by the intense figure eight flow of energy betwixt each other, more intense especialy when libido is involved. The Light of God never fails, and if you ask persistently and sincerly, The Law compels you will recieve an answer. Perhaps not in a way you expect or even like, but in patience answer you will recieve. Be like Milarepa with your hand to your ear and listening, be willing to hear the answer even if you don't like it. Bear in mind that when there is a conflict between what our desires want, and what our mind tells us, in most people their desires win out through a process of rationalization. Be smart, and allow your "Higher Self" to reveal to you where the Bear sits.
Sincerely,
john
> Dear Kate, List,
>
> For K active people, falling in love can be a relatively dangerous activity!
> :))
>
> Kundalini and Falling in love both have a certain quality of madness in
> common :)), so when they are combined there can be some pretty extraordinary
> and sometimes rather bizarre repercussion!
>
> We frequently find our libidos go into hyperdrive. An ordinary strong
> physical attraction can become overwhelming when combined with being K
> active.
>
> And when the heart is opened to love, and at the same time the heart chakra
> is opened, the reaction can be cataclysmic. In fact falling in love is a
> major trigger to Kundalini. Falling in love *while* K active can result in
> an intensity that is difficult to
> deal with even when the love is reciprocated.
>
> When we become K active we discover the cosmic qualities of love--we find
> that all of existence is orgasmic, that *everything* is love. We realize
> that we are all one and that that *one* is love personified. At this stage
> of awareness, when *everything* is love, there is a danger of connecting
> emotionally so strongly that it is difficult, when a potential partner comes
> into the picture, to separate ordinary love from cosmic love. If *we* can
> feel such an extraordinary coming together--a soul connection--a perfect
> union--then it is an *impossibility* that this feeling isn't fully shared.
> Somewhere, sometime, perhaps literally universes of time and distance apart,
> there simply has to be a mutual coming together. It can't be otherwise.
>
> And yet if it becomes obvious that the love isn't equally shared, we have to
> come to terms with the contradiction. I think that although at the cosmic
> level we *all* love one another with this intensity, we have to deal with the
> down to earth reality that
> not everyone is aware of this! :)).
>
> Josh mentioned becoming friends, and this is probably the ideal, to react
> with *unconditional* love. To realize that it is enough, simply, to love.
> But I also think it shows astonishing strength to break away when a
> relationship--even a cosmic one--isn't working at all levels.
>
> Love, Hillary
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