To: K-list
Recieved: 2001/10/10 11:47
Subject: Re:[K-list] wailing phone
From: Nick Masters
On 2001/10/10 11:47, Nick Masters posted thus to the K-list: Hello Cat,
Oddly, I have a friend in a very similar situation. She is involved with a married guy. They are in constant turmoil. Once
she called me after he left, again, and asked if I was controlling things and causing him to leave her life. At one time I had
been actually impacting them in such a way. I have found that her true-self is wanting her to learn a lesson from this, so I
have backed off completely from that course of action. Instead I just listen to what she has to say on the topic and only
give advice when specifically asked. If I act in any other way then the pain she is suffering and is going to suffer would be
lengthened in some measure, so that the lesson is finished. Just listening to this person will provide the best benefit. It
gets the confusion and turmoil within, out to a new source.
Be cautious. Make sure your intentions are pure. Make sure her true-self does not have a plan in mind. Be prepared for a
hefty commitment of effort and time. And most importantly, don't let yourself get lost in this persons created hell.
with peace and love,
nick
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