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Recieved: 2001/10/10 11:38
Subject: [K-list] wailing phone
From: Cleocatras
On 2001/10/10 11:38, Cleocatras posted thus to the K-list: Not scheduled to work today, I decided to run by the lunch break area and
figured I would find my new friend sitting there on her cellphone. Two days
before, she had spent everything she had to turn her cellphone back on just
so she could spend more money arguing with her married boyfriend who lives
across the country.
I havent really connected at all to what she says the fighting is about, as I
sat next to her during lunchbreak and listen to her get more and more upset
-- now that the cellphone is back on, she just cant seem to wait for lunch so
she can do this at every opportunity and then work herself up until she
becomes physically ill. Obviously, she wants something from him he doesnt
have to give. But what is it about, when someone needs whatever "that" is bad
enough, they flog a dead horse and then spend the rest of the day having
stomach aches, laying awake at night, and not able to get to work on time in
the morning?
So I sat there while she made her ritual call, thinking how she was digging a
hole into some black abyss in the universe, potentially rendering herself
jobless and homeless over this obsession, and how I should raise her
vibrational level somehow. So a little prayer, "Goddess, this woman needs to
get out of that black hole of negative energy, doesn't she?." Spontaneously,
her phone went dead... I smiled.
My friend looked at me and said, "Alright, I know you are a witch - now, how
did you do that?"
"I think God/dess just took matters into Her own hands", I said.
And then to my surprise, she said, "Well, you got about three more hours to
figure out how to help me get out of this state of mind I seem to be digging
myself into, because by the time I get off work, I will feel like I have to
make that call again! ... So I hope you can do something!"
Coming home, I scanned one of those spam mails with all the clever sayings
and found three good ones:
Not one shred of evidence supports the notion that life is serious.
Blessed are they who can laugh at themselves for they shall never cease to be
amused.
Experience is a wonderful thing. It enables you to recognize a mistake when
you make it again.
Well, I am not so certain I want to attach to any sense of responsibility for
fixing my friend's dysfunction, since I would end up at the bottom of the
feeding chain of a long list of energy vampires. But if I were her mother, I
would take that damn cellphone away so she could concentrate on her work,
before she doesnt have any. <sigh> But I am not her mother.
Would be glad to hear how everyone else might respond to this situation,
rather than share my own right now...
Cat
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