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Recieved: 2001/08/17 05:23
Subject: [K-list] Laura
From: Cleocatras

On 2001/08/17 05:23, Cleocatras posted thus to the K-list:

Laura wrote:

> gift...and
> that the way to change the past (or present) is forgiveness. Am also
> realizing that their power may have been an illusion of circumstance

Dear Laura,

Your parents are not the final opinion about who you are. They are not the
expert on who you are. However, the parent /child relationship is
instinctually designed for the child to become what is dictated to them -- by
default.

Silent judo:"Since I am not those things that you say I am, are you saying
these things because you want me to believe you and become them?" See the
illusion?

Step out of the illusion. Don't include yourself in someone else's fantasy,
and it extinguishes their belief and disarms them. The words are not about
you at all, therefore not yours to answer to, to address or respond. No
reason to feed the illusion except to perpetuate its potential to be real.

People say negative things to perpetuate the interaction. They can be
habitual, without thinking or realizing. Challenging you to play the game is
habitual. It's not your game, so dont play. Remember, if there is no one to
play with, chances are they will stop playing, eventually. The habit will die
away. Redirecting is also another option. You can replace the interaction
with something more pleasant for both of you.

Blessings,
Cat


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