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Recieved: 2001/08/12 09:32
Subject: Re: [K-list] A couple starting out...
From: José H

On 2001/08/12 09:32, José H posted thus to the K-list:

Hi Dale,

> She is unwilling to attend a formal course in the art of Tantra. I
> attribute this directly to her being abused in her formative years -
> unwilling or unable to learn / share with others for fear of being
> abused yet again..

Did you ask her about it, or are you assuming?
>
> Can any of you think of a way to help her overcome this fear?

Take her objection to it seriously, to start with. Really listen to what she
has to say. It might be a fear that can be overcome - but it is not there
for nothing.
>
> Do any of you think that if I take a course on my own - would I then
> be able to effectively pass on the art to her? (I have yet to
> discuss this idea with her - I am not sure if she would be
> comfortable with this idea)

You would be abusing here yourself if you're not carefull. I don't think
there will be a really tantric experience for her untill she works through
the old pain of abuse - but you cannot push her to do so for your own
pleasure.
Then again, she might be willing to learn and work through the old pain, but
take her resistance seriously, and accept her pace.

Good luck and blessings
José


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