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Recieved: 2001/05/17 01:45
Subject: Re: [K-list] Ripplez...
From: Recoveringserena
On 2001/05/17 01:45, Recoveringserena posted thus to the K-list: In a message dated 05/17/2001 10:21:37 AM W. Europe Daylight Time,
mystressATnospamfire-serpent.com writes:
> >is that when some "well meaning" therapist who does not understand
> >the meaning and principles of "transference" gets deeply involved
> >with a client on an emotional level .. without clearing all of their own
> >personal issues first ..
>
> Well it is a good thing I'm not a therapist, then. I'm a
Shakti-fired
> Kundalini Witch and Shaman. As for transference.. that is exactly what
> Karma vampire games are. Deliberate transference.
I never thought the ideal of a clinically detached therapist
who has cleared all his/her own emotional stuff was worth
very much... it seems like one of those ideals that seems valid perhaps
when considering the issues from a purely intellectual standpoint-
but crumbles in the moment of actually
trying to care for someone who is suffering.
The ideal perhaps sets therapists up
to get blindsided by transference (due to an
illusion of immunity, objectivity, whatever)
rather than actually protecting them
and their clients from it...
I'll take "deliberate transference" any day... and I appreciate
healing situations where both are learning and encountering and struggling,
instead of setups where all that hard stuff is the patient's job and the
healer is above it all...
Serena
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