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Recieved: 2001/05/14 05:57
Subject: [K-list] To Christopher
From: Cleocatras

On 2001/05/14 05:57, Cleocatras posted thus to the K-list:

Dear Christopher,

Thank you for sharing your experiences. Shutting down your emotions about
what has happened comes out in other ways until it is released. I hope you
did get to express the anger and resentment and feelings of loss that comes
along with this treatment.
As you just said, it is taboo for males to talk about these things,
however... I am of the belief that breaching taboos and rolemodelling is what
enlightened people are designed to do well. Breaking the model and showing
that "its okay to express all of it" is a very great contribution indeed.

Telling my story outloud in even a therapeutic or academic setting had
allowed others the opportunity to share their own experiences, and so many
times it was said how my discussions validated many feelings with them. The
majority of people to not go to "Group" therapies and they keep it all
bottled up inside.

Remember, talking is releasing. Hearing someone else's story is validation
and a feeling of peacefulness. Feeling anger on behalf of someone else is
also sometimes easier than for your self...

I know you will disagree with me, however, I sense that you have concluded no
emotion is better than all the emotion you feel about this matter. I sense
your decision in this area is one of the reasons you stay aloof here. You do
not need to respond to what I have just said, just remember that anytime
there is some beneficial amenity, there is always a degree of emotional risk.
I think you should stick your neck out more often. I am very glad you were
able to share your personal experiences. Now, I would like to hear the
emotions that go with them...

Blessings,

Cat
<Yes .. Violence, Sexual Abuse and Torture were the physical
manifestations of her dysfunction as she expressed it towards me ..
then there were other aspects of emotional blackmail and control.>


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