To: K-list
Recieved: 2001/05/13 18:23
Subject: Re: [K-list] fem abusers
From: Christopher Wynter
On 2001/05/13 18:23, Christopher Wynter posted thus to the K-list: Now ..
Would you be able to give a breakdown of the figures for
the support network resources available for
both Female and Male
victims of abuse ..?
and would you also be able to give a breakdown of the statistics
which show who was the instigator of the abuse report ..
whether it was a male .. or a female ... who took the
victim to the service .. ?
What you have quoted were NOT FACTS
but data collected from incidents reported
to the available sources.
which I will not deny may be an accurate
collation of reports .. available at the time.
and again, the presentation of the statistics
depended totally on the perspective
of the person reporting and analysing the figures.
As anyone who has studied statistics and statistical models knows,
figures can be made to show whatever anyone wants them to show.
At 11:03 AM 14/05/01, you wrote:
>Christopher,
>
>Lets not water down the facts with a sidestep. Since this must be your issue,
>just talk about it direct as it relates to you instead,
You obviously did not take note of all that I wrote in that post ..
instead, choosing to focus on what raised a reaction within you ..
I suggest you might read what I wrote more carefully ..
because I did bring my own past into the context of what I wrote.
What you are presenting here is a very good illustration
of the reason why the statistics are distorted ..
for there are so many involved in the reporting system
who are not able to hear beyond what raises
their own unresolved personal issues ..
which immediately flaws the gathered statistics ..
Now .. can we broaden the discussion
to consider the cause of all abuse of children
by adults of both genders ..?
>Now .. what about the male victim of the female abuser ...
>
>and also the silent, unseen unreported abuse ..
>
>Imagine if you will, a mother who was abused by a male ..
>and carries the unresolved memory of that abuse as a resentment
>of all things male
cw
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