To: K-list
Recieved: 2001/05/11 06:40
Subject: Re: [K-list] big butts ..
From: Kathy Bates

Christopher Wynter wrote:
>
> a big butt is nothing more than the manifestation
> of a protective wall that a child puts around itself
> to protect itself from the pain of the projections
> aimed at it .. especially during very early infancy
> and childhood.

Too Kewl! Christopher, honey, thanks so much for explaining to me why I
have a big behind!!!

<LOL>

Now when the next person comes up to me and says "hey, looks like you've
put on a few pounds" and their eyes go to my backside, I can say "no,
it's just the base and sacral chakras reacting to my early pain"

<ROTFLOL>
 
Serious question:

Is there *anything* you can't explain, Christopher?

Non-serious comment:

You remind me, really, of the super-intelligent folks who go on a radio
show in England, the show's called "Call My Bluff"...where these
super-intelligent folks are asked to explain what a word means, and
sometimes they are telling the truth and other times they are making it
up as they go along.

(this is not meant as a slam, Christopher... I'm actually growing quite
fond of you and your posting style. Though I personally think I would
prefer to "see" the un-guarded Christopher, and not one who is writing
in the assumed style you describe below...)
 
> Yes .. what I may write at times may seem to be unfeeling, cool, aloof ..
> all of those words ... but working on this level with people,
> I must maintain a level of detachment .. because, if I do not
>
> I know I will trap the people I am writing to
> into their cycle .. and I will take on, a passenger
> their particular trauma archetype ..
>
> and when one works with severe trauma cases, this can be
> very draining .. as is seen by the number of therapists who go
> through "therapeutic burnout".
 
So, I guess my real, serious question (I have one) is: Why are you
showing up as the *aloof therapist* on this list? (again, not a slam, I
just wonder why we don't get to see *you* more often.) I don't recall
anyone having directly asked for you to act as list therapist a la
Christopher Wynter...so why assume that role? Can we see more of what is
behind this incredibly interesting intellectual aloofness, please? Or
does posting that way to this list put you at risk for therapeutic burnout?

B*B & hugs

Kath

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