To: K-list
Recieved: 2001/04/05 09:44
Subject: [K-list] Re: [HarshaSatsangh] relationship and communication
From: Hbarrett47
On 2001/04/05 09:44, Hbarrett47 posted thus to the K-list: JB -- I don't believe the practice of equanimity means accepting situations
that may be destructive to us. Forgive me for interpreting a little bit: it
seems you are asking for permission to exit/alter this relationship, or at
least part of you is. I would focus on this "agent" whose permission you
need. This is the power that actually traps you. This could be parental,
cultural or some other kind of expectation for yourself that you still hold
-- you'll have to go on a deep search to find the source. When it truly is
okay with this agent (you) if you leave the relationship, you might actually
find the freedom to remain. The decision to go or stay will become much
clearer. I have to go through much more mundane variants of this process
with my husband all the time. The "problem" is always ultimately within me
and when I identify how I am still reinforcing egoic images internally, I
know what to do to handle each situation. With love, Holly.
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