To: K-list
Recieved: 2001/03/25 11:12
Subject: Re: [K-list] Passing Judgement
From: Paul Perner
On 2001/03/25 11:12, Paul Perner posted thus to the K-list:
Somebody Wrote:
> > So, when Christopher projects victimhood, I speak out for Free
Will.
> > When JB was complaining of the misery of the world, I speak of
Perfection.
> > When V. is complaining of being a victim, I speak of the abuser
within the
> > choice of victimhood. Reflecting projections back to the source.
>
> <snip>
What's this? Another candidate for sainthood?
'O what a challenge to know we are not perfect like you. (Please don't
answer... this is a set up... I'm projecting.)
And Valerie wrote:
> Didn't work in this case, obviously.
> I think you forgot to refer to Simon as being unneccessarily abusive,
not just what you
> judge as my "victimhood". Which is what I must insist upon as
"self-defense". When someone
> is kicking someone, are they a victim if they do not allow it?
> Please do not refer to me in this "victimhood" idea of yours anymore,
or use me as your
> example as such.
> And, why not test yourself by NOT feeling like you have to react and
post anything back?
> I'd just as soon not continue this discussion, except that I am tired
of being told that I
> have a "victim complex" over and over, publicly.
> thankyou in advance,
> valerie
> (lurker)
Dear Friends,
I don't remember the whole thread that lead to Valerie's post, but her
concerns bring to light why so few lurkers post here... even now during
the Kundalini Gateway International Lurker's Festival.
On one hand this list is a warm, friendly community. On the other hand
we come off like a cluster of neo saints, self styled gurus, teachers
and water walkers who have an answer for everything. It can be both
intimidating and redundant.
...just my opinion.
Paul
(average human with your
typical aches and pains
and messes up hair)
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