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To: K-list
Recieved: 2001/03/25 08:46
Subject: [K-list] passing on passing judgement (was: Passing Judgement)
From: percyval

On 2001/03/25 08:46, percyval posted thus to the K-list:

----- Original Message -----
From: "v" <amusedATnospamptialaska.net>
(snip)
> And, why not test yourself by NOT feeling like you have to react and
post anything back?
> I'd just as soon not continue this discussion, except that I am tired
of being told that I
> have a "victim complex" over and over, publicly.
> thankyou in advance,
> valerie
> (lurker)

we have a tendency on this list to sometimes mercilessly hold up our
mirrors to people who we want to help see what may seem so obvious to
us... well, Valerie has just "safeworded" (to borrow a bdsm term)...
respect for consensuality means that now is time to stop... if we have
an urge to keep holding up mirrors to Valerie, it is now time to turn
those mirrors back on ourselves instead...

let's please let her be, unless at some point she brings the matter up
again... i think this list would be a kinder place if we tried to spot
and respect these boundries even when they are not made so obviously
clear as Valerie has done here... i think the need for this respectful
discernment is something that can add to make this list even more
wonderful than it already is...

warmly,

percyval


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