To: K-list
Recieved: 2001/03/19 21:17
Subject: Re: [K-list] over-sensitivity.
From: v
On 2001/03/19 21:17, v posted thus to the K-list:
"S.G." wrote:
> Ok Angelique,
>
> Now its your turn to listen.
>
> 1)Your warning refers to my reaction to the Mc Donalds urban myth which
> conveniently ignores the matter at hand: Valeries ascerbic knee-jerk
> reaction to my innocent joke with the group.
you keep calling names to a situation which you obviously have no intention of
taking the time to understand. I did not intend my post as "knee-jerk" or
"ascerbic". Because you took it that way does NOT make it so.
> 2)You have leapt to the defense of the antagonizer and handed me the short
> end of the stick. It would seem that 10 days reading my posts is enough to
> assure you that Valerie's mental state warrants sensitivity and mine does
> not.
Angelique has been reading my posts for 6 years. How dare you presume to know
what my mental state warrants?
> 4)One or both of you have deliberately turned this into a crusade. You have
> done this despite my genuine efforts to celebrate our differences of opinion
> rather than choose sides like you have today.
oh poor you...
i already posted that I forgave you publically earlier today, and privately
posted you a very nice apology, which took a lot of soul searching on my part,
and a lot of courage. You are out of line here, buddy.
>
> 6)In your overzealous efforts to protect the "hypersensitive" in this group
> you have completely overlooked me.
you have continuously been the antagonizer in these situations, what else do
you expect?
>
> With respect to my innocent "Fiona paradox" posting which aroused all this
> discord in the first place, the obediant subscribers approach to resolving
> this would go something like this: Q. "Valerie Would you aggree that now you
> know what my intention was for my original posting that you may have
> misinterpreted it? I would have to say YES if YOU put the same question to
> me about your response to it" More safe, risk-free experience and no
> disagreement. Well then, we have really moved on havn't we?
I was willing to give you the benefit of the doubt, but after this "knee jerk"
ascerbic, totally self-absorbed *dump* on me, Angelique, and at the expense of
the whole list, it is patently obvious that I have "tossed my pearls before
swine".
>
> <snip>I am sorry to make my exit like this but I
> decline to be victimized by members of the "girls club" in the name of the
> Goddess.
"victimized" by a girl's club? You act as if you have done nothing to harm me,
or anything at all, for that matter!
> I refuse to give you the satisfaction of orchestrating an undignified exit
> and instruct you to remove me from the list at once.
It's your own responsibility to remove yourself from this, or any other list.
Why are you asking Angelique to do it?
> >From the heart and the head
I seriously doubt it...
>
> Note: For the expressed intention of avoiding doubt this message was sent
> privately and publically to address the group with grievances that concern
> all subscribers. In this regard and despite accusations to the contrary, it
> is the only one of its kind.
The issues at hand are ones that concern "what constitutes abuse of another
list member", and now - since this - what happens when an abuser refuses to
accept responsibility for his or her actions. As such, they are of concern to
other list members, but this impassioned rant to Angelique is between you and
she.
As for me, you are the one who kept posting my private emails to the whole
list, and it doesn't matter why.
later on, gnarly dude. Since you have not once expressed remorse for the
turmoil you put me in, or even addressed it, and are only concerned with your
ego, I have to surmise at this point that you harbor accute sociopathic
tendencies, and I wish you luck dealing with them.
valerie
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