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Recieved: 2000/11/13 12:05
Subject: [K-list] re: My Daughter (Wendy)
From: Christopher Wynter
On 2000/11/13 12:05, Christopher Wynter posted thus to the K-list:
Dear Wendy ..
You mightn't like what I have to say here, but that is OK. What I write comes
from many years working with children and my backgroung is Transpersonal
psychotherapy .. and private research
>I mentioned earlier that my 9 year old daughter astral travels and has
>psychic dreams...
So do all children .. the only difference is that she has told you and you have
heard her. There are a number of possible scenarios for what you have
described .. and it is difficult to accurately make suggestions on what you
have written.
What needs to be addressed here are what are the unconscious fears that
you have concerning what is happening to her .. because what you write
suggests there is more going on within you .. and the children are very great
mirrors of the unconscious patterns of their parents.
The other thing .. what is her (and your) relationship with your mother .. her
grandmother ..
>About 2 years ago she was diagnosed with having complex partial seizure
>disorder. I took her to the doctor after she would tell me how she
>sometimes saw the trees "wiggle" and had many experiences of "seeing" things
>differently and hearing things like "the people start to speak in different
>languages" "they speak Chinese". She would see lights and was able to
>describe them not just as lights but as patterns of light, she began to
>develop a tick in her face that would start at the bottom of the left side
>of her face and then move up to the right side of her face. She was in a
>very academic school and she began to fall behind because the teacher's said
>she would "space out" and miss things.
Has she ever consumed any of the sugar reolacements .. Aspartane, Nutrasweet,
Diet soft drinks .. because these symptoms can reflect the use of these ..
or did you use them or any other drugs whilst you were pregnant with her.
> I didn't know then where to turn - I
>thought she may be having a spiritual awakening -
All children are born spiritually awake .. most parents shut that down because
it is something that is not safe to talk about ,, and it goes against
religion ..
>yet didn't have the people
>who might be able to help us so I turned to a neurologist who started her on
>medication. I have since taken her off that medication for a number of
>reasons but mostly because I didn't think it did enough good to warrant
>drugging my baby.
Well, that's a good thing .. perhaps .. depending on a lot of other things ..
Neurologists do not necessarily have all of the answers ..
but, keeping her as "Your baby" will stop her development and keep her
tied to you in a way that all she will be able to do is re-enact for you,
all of your stuff.
and will restrict her possibilities to develop her own individuality.
>I belive she has special gifts and don't know what to do to foster these
>giifts.
Every child has .. the best thing you can do is allow her her own freedom
of expression without making her an "odd ball" or different tp other children.
Do not do anything. Whatever she has is her birthright. Anything you, or a
teacher
will do is corrupt what she has. Just allow her to speak of her experiences
and help her to be able to speak about them without making them an issue.
What is she reflecting in you .. what happened when you were 8 or 9 years of
age .. many of the answers could be found here.
Also what happened to her when she was between 1 and 3 years of age ..
and what was happening to you when you were between 2,5 and 12 weeks
pregnant with her ..
all of these things could be contributing to the present circumstances.
>This morning she complained to me about being dizzy and to the best
>of my awareness I guided her in an exercise to ground. She also has a lot
>of stomach trouble and feels weak in her arms and legs. She, again,
>sometimes sees and hears things.
These can be symptoms of any of the above .. or of some other person
"projecting their thoughts or prayers" towards her .. or of her (or your)
anticipation of going into some situation which may be uncomfortable to
her .. I would need to know more of the circumstances ..
>Her father - we are separated - wants to
>hear nothing of any of this - not that she may be sick but certainly not
>that she may be having a spiritual movement of some sort.
Well, the nest thing is not to tell him anything about "spiritual movement"
and then you might stop some of the projections coming from him which
would be strong enough to contribute to your daughter's discomfort.
Silent thoughtform and hidden emotions carry just as much impact on a child
(any child) as emotional and physical abuse.
>She has to spend
>time with him and often comes home and is sick - vomits sometimes and feels
>so worthless that my heart aches to watch her go there again.
Well - what is he putting on her as to the reason for your separation .. is he
blaming you .. or her .. or criticising you .. there are a number of
reasons that
could lead to these symptoms .. what of his family .. mother/father ..
is there any strong religious affiliation ....
>She is a
>very wise - wise like ancient wisdom - little girl. For instance - I had to
>have our pet put to sleep 2 weeks ago. When I told her - she said to me "I
>just don't want you to think it is your fault, mama." This is just a little
>sample of the "wisdom" she holds and a small sample of the pains and visions
>she has.
Every child knows these things ... every child has this wisdon ...
Allow that the children can come as our teachers .. and that
There is more that you can learn from her
than you can possibly teach her.
This I have learned from being able to hear the children
especially children born to members of my own group ..
Christopher Wynter
Hobart Tasmania
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