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Recieved: 2000/10/27 05:00
Subject: Re: [K-list] Sleep, alone vs. not
From: José
On 2000/10/27 05:00, José posted thus to the K-list:
Don't sleep with her to please her. If you don't want to sleep with her -
don't.
José
(........)
>My female partner (we do not live together) is interested in the last
>couple of years, but is most centered in the
>emotions/romance/physical contact need; While my attention is more
>drawn to the upper areas,.. heart, top of head..
>When once in a while we sleep together (I do it out of love for her,
>to please her), I find it rather uncomfartable.. (the one-to-one
>model is the one she loves, while I Do need the Space around me or
>rather being the Space and (while awake) meeting her in that
>Space,).. and a living being next to one make a bit too much 'noise'
>unfortunatelly (and I do not mean just the snoring.. ,I do not quite
>know why she thinks that's terribly nice & romantic.. to me when you
>sleep, you sleep).
>She accepts most of the time not sleeping in same bed,.. but she's
>not so happy about it,.. I guess one cannot expect her to understand
>if she does not experience it herself.
>I just put a picture before you.. and any comments/pointers are
>appreciated.
>jb.
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