To: K-list
Recieved: 2000/08/22 14:00
Subject: Re: [K-list] Sex
From: Dolores
On 2000/08/22 14:00, Dolores posted thus to the K-list:
Hey Henry...
I think it is not about making sex spiritual... but, rather making sex natural. With the heaviness of thousands of years of religious repression and of course each of our own personal obsticals, we have to work at bringing the nature back to sex. There is such a stigma about sex, for humans. And, I think that animal sex, the type with out "issues" is very spiritual.
Although since you shared you watch the animal channels alot, you know that many speices of animals have sex that is painful and sometimes violent. Humankind has stumbled upon sex that can evolve beyond the purpose of simple procration. We have the oppertunity to make it more intresting, and to use it as a tool to tap into a very intimate place in our minds.
I am looking forward to learning about tantric sex. There is one rule I was told at the beginning of my awareness path, by my guide... "Enlightenment will not ask of you to make ANY sacrifices." Rather, as one becomes enlightened, it will be a personal want to let go of things that hinder our growth. This takes me to sex. I don't have to feel guilty about enjoying or embracing it. I don't have to be silent with my essence. I don't have to sacrifice myself to become celebate, unless that is what my instincts want.
Sex has been used to keep humans "in line". Sex tends to keep us intuned with our bodies. Looking at older unsexual folks... my parents for example... thier health is better when they are affectionate, and take the time to touch each other. I can only imagine how wonderful they would feel if they actually had sex. They too have fallen victim to parts that are "broken" and need drugs to work.
Touch is an incredible mental, emotoinal and very spiritual aid. With out touch, babies would die... it really is no different for adults. And sex is an ultimate form of touch. When channeling during a sexual experince, amazing feeling can occur.
Of course there is a very important thing we haven't touched upon... Sexual intent. With certin types of pornography and just listening to the popluation speak, it is appearent we still have to teach respect for this initamte type of touch. Too often we still reward the man who looks at a woman, not into her. Same with women. Sex is less then enlightening, when those involved are being objectified.
It is this confusion that has kept me from dancing in public. Look around at how men and women watch each other. Some men watch a woman, and see only her physical attributes and how her parts would feel to him. Some men see the womans essence, how she walks, talks, how she thinks and feels. He is tapping into the whole woman, not just her skin.
This is a whole other topic. But, here is a source of why so many people feel they must reshape themselves to find love. The obsession of men with breasts, is a sign that they may not have had enough true nuturing when they were young. When you are little breasts tend to look very big, and we have figured a way to continue with the illusion of big. Our society is a symptom of our internal work.
Anyways... I will stop blabbing :)
D
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