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Recieved: 2000/07/03 17:27
Subject: Re: [K-list] Re: Love the Enemy
From: David Bozzi
On 2000/07/03 17:27, David Bozzi posted thus to the K-list:
Robert Weil wrote:
> >In a sense, healing is the practice of 'wave cancellation.'
>
> Yes, that resonates for me. :-) However, wave cancellation requires one to
> know the wave form... one has to understand the wave sufficiently to know
> how the cancellation can be carried out.
To be free of anger become one with it.
To be free of excitation become one with it.
Have you noticed how anger, excitation and sadness
become extinguished once kissed by awareness?
I don't know what awareness is but I have noticed it has a cancellation effect.
This is ultimately the function of kundalini.
> It may be important to that person's health at that time to be angry. The
> wave itself may be a healing.
One would have to be aware to realize that.
Every experience has this potential.
> Just floating this stuff, by the way. And I'm
> aware that I'm talking to myself here also... :-)
Yes, in ways neither of us are aware of. : )
> Sometimes it may be that doing nothing is best... Maybe any action will
> work out somehow...
Ask your awareness...
> I often feel the need to assert a sense of self as different to another's.
> Perhaps it lies in the choosing to assert that difference, knowing that we
> are freer to choose than the person who maintains a more rigid identity?
Ego can be a tool of either healing or injury.
> I don't know, and I keep finding new experiences that demand (it seems) that
> I loosen up my ideas on what I believe to be "the right way".
Whichever way we think is right ultimately turns out to be a block.
> Of course in the process of
> working through my own issues brought up by the conflict, I might also get
> angry and respond unkindly to the other person. So I guess, in learning to
> see where my own stuff is and resolve my internal conflicts I'm learning
> how to heal the pain and rigidity in the other person. They may also have
> something I can learn from...
If you keep your house clean, it will be clean for all your guest as well. : )
> Here's (yet another) something that still puzzles me: what about a
> situation in which the people in conflict are at such variance that they
> cannot read each other's actions and words as the originator intended them?
Two cars run a stop sign and crash.
Lesson: stop at stop signs.
> what can one base one's understanding, or act
> correctly to cancel the wave?
There's no formula. If you find one, cancel that too.
> After all, we may have got that person wrong
> to begin with, in our limited understanding.
Is it our duty to get our brothers and sisters right?
If we can see that they are not apart from us
what's the difference?
> How far can we become the
> person we "see" them to be, in order to learn enough to "cancel the wave"?
Canceling waves is not something to master.
That which transcends waves masters us.
Do we allow that to happen?
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