To: K-list
Recieved: 2000/06/12 14:40
Subject: Re: [K-list] stifled
From: Dodop
On 2000/06/12 14:40, Dodop posted thus to the K-list:
In a message dated 6/12/2000 6:55:07 AM Eastern Daylight Time,
david.bozziATnospamsnet.net writes:
<< By the way, that neediness and longing is built into the species--it comes
> with the territory and the hormones.
Is fear good enough for you?
Neediness is fear.
But we grow. We heal. Fear can be 'transformed'.
> hormones make you
> lonely, horny, angry at your parents, feeling misunderstood, etc.
Eventually
> you end up looking for a mate.
But then it gets discovered that this can't fill the infinite hole either and
then... >>
Gee, sorry the love thing hasn't worked out for you. I want to tell you that
it can work out. I've been happily married for 20 years to someone who I
love deeply and would marry all over again. Has our life been easy?
NO--it's been incredibly difficult, with many problems--money, jobs, health,
inlaws, kids with problems. But, through all this our love has grown and
matured. And I have become a much better person--more patient, loving and
unselfish--than I would have been if I had not had this relationship. And
how did all this start? The usual way--longing, horniness, neediness,
followed by dating. : D
I think it's pretty easy to love people in a general sort of way: "I love
mankind, it's people I can't stand." The really hard thing is to work it out
on a one on one basis, in love and in family life. If you want to get some
sense of how you are loved by a loving Higher Power, you can find it in the
relationships that you have with other human beings.
Isadora
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