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Recieved: 2000/06/10 20:10
Subject: [K-list] Re: stifled
From: Mrstoast
On 2000/06/10 20:10, Mrstoast posted thus to the K-list:
Dearest percyval wrote:
> i've found that having union with my inner Divine Beloved is not
something
> to have instead of having real human contact... i think having this
union
> adds something to a person that seems to attract lovers and other
friends...
>
> union with my Lover Within has allowed me to view my "real" lover
more
> objectively... that is, with less expectations, and also without
neediness
> to have another person conform to my ideal preconceptions...
>
> warmly,
>
> percyval
Bexactly!
The Divine Beloved is not (but also is) a fantasy. The Divine
Beloved is not a conjecture of sexual desire soley. It's about
embracing your dualist essences, a marriage of your God-ness and
Goddess-ness, your huMan-ness and huWoman-ness. And not intended to
replace one's "external" relationships. Rather to seek greater
wholeness within oneself.
As El mentioned earlier, all relationships are work to some extent,
and rightly so. Not only can another person not completely fufill
your needs, you can not predict what your shifting needs will be or
become over time. I've been married 10 years now, and while I love
my husband dearly, our commitment is a choice we make every day in
some ways.
I'll let Mystress tackle the issues past dualist reality . . . ;)
And away!
Melissa
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