To: K-list
Recieved: 2000/05/25 19:24
Subject: Re: [K-list] Just a little Peep!
From: Ann S. Larson
On 2000/05/25 19:24, Ann S. Larson posted thus to the K-list:
>>Somedays I am sure the right thing to do is to unsubscribe, and other days I
feel blessed to be in the company of such beautiful beings.<<
Yes, Indeed, Absolutely Me Too.
cant live with em
cant live without em
>>It is difficult to know how to handle people when they are in gross denial of their Ego-consciousness.<<
I hardly can handle people on a good day... I cant hardly handle me on a bad day.
There are alot of people here, some having good days some having bad days someone out there has always responded, if not on list then off, I dont feel obligated to 'handle people' we have Angelique and and her list angel to handle that...
behind the scene, members are helping members, even when they flame them.
I wonder what the ratio is of people who come on to the list with their ego in full speed, get flamed and 'dont' come back on to say thank you compared to those who do.
I personally learn a whole lot about myself from the exchanges. Whether or not I am a part of them.
>>I believe that confrontation is not the way.<<
"I hate confrontation !" is second only to "I hate responsibility !"
anyone who knows me has to hear these mantras daily, repeatedly, but
sometimes confrontation is the quickest and most effective way...
nobody has to join in if they dont want...
by the way, I am one of, if not the worst of the cry babies about flame wars during a period of major changes within the list... whirlwind of a winter emotionally -for many- as I recall... the List Angel, Nancy, was born of those storms, I think she passed her wings to Percyval.
Dont worry about it, Goddess has it handled : )
confrontation is good sometimes.
Already I have been too wordy, so I wont give personal examples here, surely you have a few of your own?
If not, I want to know your secret, cause I really dont like confrontation either...
>>Somehow it must be possible to coax ones shadow into the light more gently. <<
Perhaps, and if that shadow needs to be confronted to step into the light, I know where some hard-ass but loving people are who are gonna hand me a torch and stay with me !! thats a biggie, lots of people will take me into the shadows, here, I know they will help me dig thru the cave-ins' should they occur,
until we reach the true light... and then,
they disappear, back into cyberspace...
leaving me to keep my own torch lit, on MY Own path. There is a variety
of people here, and the diversity of answers I get, the 'this worked for me' kind of advice and sharing is wonderful,
some people kick butt real good, others are more gentle, I have never been whooped here without a loving stroke, they just dont always come from the same address, at the same time.
>> I believe that the
nature of the Kundalini beast is that we think we know it all.<<
I thought the nature of the Kundalini Beast was to help me discover that I DO know it all.
>>I have a
small suggestion - when people feel their buttons pressed, it would be be an
idea to reflect for a day or so, and then mail when there is less charge in
the posting(less energy in motion!)
Few things have been more damaging to me than to hit the breaker switch
when my buttons were pushed, I can stuff in a few breaths just as easily as I can let go in a few breaths...
but dangit, sometimes I forget...
In light of your previous statement:
>>Somedays I am sure the right thing to do is to unsubscribe, and other days I
feel blessed to be in the company of such beautiful beings.<<
Maybe we shouldnt fix what really isnt broke at all, it just smokes a little from time to time,
I see it this way, when a fire starts to smoke, it needs more heat, to burn clean.....
learned that at Beltane... : )
Keep the K-fires burning clean!!!
I love this group. Just as it is.
love, and rainbows,
freda
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