To: K-list
Recieved: 2000/01/25 22:28
Subject: Re: [K-list] What do truly "straight" people REALLY know about
From: Jenell

From: Jenell <anglfthrATnospamiamerica.net>

Jon-Carl Lewis wrote:
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> It pisses me off when persons with only one-sided experience make pronouncements about which side of the fence is preferable, and then use your spiritual constructs to justify your own bias.
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Those that are unable to comprehend this, Jon-Carl, are still 'hung up'
on identifying their sexuality as being of this material, physical body.
We all have both male and female within us.

I am an entirely heterosexual woman. Yet, I have realized and accepted
my maleness, too. This does not mean I have with that a desire for sex
with other women, because my maleness, and my femaleness, spiritually,
are already 'complete'. My sexual desire and enjoyment of sex with a man
continues, but with a very different aspect that has come with my
recognition of my maleness. Where I once 'needed' the maleness of my
partner to form the 'complete' male/female experience within me in sex,
felt as if I were only a half of the whole in the act, I am now
complete, a whole, and percive my partner also as a whole, not just the
other half, even if he hasn't realized his wholeness yet. My response to
him is no longer out of need for his maleness, but simply enjoyment,
pleasure.

This realization of one's wholeness, both male and female within one's
self, and recognition of that in one's partner, transcends the mental
barriers of the physcial gender. Perhaps gay men and lesbian women may
even have an advantage over us heterosexuals in achieving that.

I will continue being heterosexual, but I recognize that now as a
programming, a condition of, my biological and mental state, not my
spiritual.
Jenell

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