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Recieved: 2000/01/24 21:18
Subject: [K-list] weird relationships
From: nancy
On 2000/01/24 21:18, nancy posted thus to the K-list:
From: nancy <nancyATnospamwtp.net>
Hello everyone
I'm not new to the list, but the neighborhood has changed so much that
many of you won't recognize me. I've been lurking for a long time now.
It seems like there hasn't been much to say.
I forget who wrote the post about karate helping get one back into the
physical world. I have had the same thing happen this past year, not
through karate, but through physical activity. It's good to feel earthy
instead of spacey!
The reason for my post is that while everything seems to be flowing in
my life, there's one area where I don't seem to make progress...romantic
relationships. I do know that I am intentionally selective about
prospective partners. I'm comfortable with myself and would prefer being
alone rather than with someone incompatible. My main criteria is that I
want someone with whom I can experience a soul connection.
Everytime I meet someone who seems to be a potential match, things go
weirdly wrong. For example, I met someone a while ago, and it seemed
like things could progress. A mutual friend told me he was single and
was interested in dating. This man and I would see each other several
times a week in a shared activity, and soon we were regularly talking
and sharing on a personal level. After two months of this, he told me
last week that he was going to be getting married through an arranged
marriage. (He's known about it the whole time I met him.) What the ???
He never mentioned this when we'd sit around and talk for an hour. (And
yes, I think he was clear about my interest. I did ask him out, and he
said he couldn't go because of work but would like to go some other
time.)
I don't know how in the world I could have known he was engaged! Yet,
this isn't the first time I have had an emotional/spiritual connection
with someone that never moves into the physical world. What am I doing
that prevents relationships from being physical too? Is there some vibe
that I'm sending out that attracts this to me?
As I said, pretty worldly stuff I'm dealing with these days!
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