To: K-list
Recieved: 1999/09/16 08:38
Subject: [K-list] forgiveness
From: Leteegee
On 1999/09/16 08:38, Leteegee posted thus to the K-list:
In a message dated 9/16/99 10:41:49 AM Eastern Daylight Time,
Bdj122158ATnospamaol.com writes:
>
> My initial reaction was to forgive Dale for his "initial" response.
Forgiveness is not 'out there', in forgiving Dale his trespasses. .
Forgiveness is to look inwards,
to see that there is nothing to forgive.
>But, > since it looks> like he tends to attack anyone who either disagrees
or upholds the > guidelines > of the list,> my vote is to revoke Dales
privilege of being a member of this list.
This is not a forgiveness issue that calls for punishment. There are rules
here, and if they do not go by them, they can possibly be outsted.
> PS - Dale, I will be patiently waiting for your loving, eloquent response.
Your response is typical of the forgiveness mind-set. "If you be nice, I'll
forgive you because I want you to fulfill my expectations of you, and you
won't be punished." Bah! If you really want to practice forgiveness, try
forgiving those that don't act the way you expect them to. Now that would
be something!
As long as you are waiting for Dale or anyone to be loving, your wait will be
long. Being loving begins with you. If you cannot do that, then you are
forced to feel as if you must forgive the other for what YOU did not do...
and punish them if they don't accept your forgiveness. Co-dependence is what
that is. Yikes!
Peace be with you. I forgive you your trespasses. I await your own loving
and eloquent response back to me.
(Now doesn't that just piss you off?)
Love,
xxxtg
* Forgiveness is easy to do when everyone is acting like you want them to *
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