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Recieved: 1999/08/11 15:34
Subject: Re: [K-list] Secret Shame ..... [Fran]
From: Christopher Wynter
On 1999/08/11 15:34, Christopher Wynter posted thus to the K-list:
Would you also like to notice that that last post was (credited to and) written
by my FEMALE partner ....
and is in fact indicative of what I find when I take a large number of women
deep into the remembering of their own body ...
words that are echoed by women who have a NEED to be identified as Mother ...
Wife ... Female
women who have a need to be noticed and approved of in those roles ...
and underneath that need for approval, there is most often, an issue with their
own mother ...
Whilst there is a need to be a mother, wife, female, there can be no joy in the
experience ... whilst there is that need, there is always condition and
comparison ... and with that comes self judgement ... and this passed on to the
children and our children's children ...
Yes, there is issue here for the males as well ... and their influence on the
children ... but because the female provides the "incubator" for the child
during the first nine months, she "bakes the cake" AND provides many of the
ingredients in terms of beliefs and patterns ...
beliefs which run our unconscious mind ... and which can be shown to be repeated
in form every year of life until death ...
unless we can understand that, and that mother is (mostly) not to blame most
people in western society continue to (unconsciously) judge everything they say
or do in terms of whether or not it will get approval and recognition from
mother ...
Fiona's words came as the result of an exercise (briefly)
where I asked my group to meditate on their left hand ... write down everything
that came up ... every meaning of left ... what were the symbols that came out
of the left hand ... how did they feel about it ... etc ...
I then asked the group to do the same for their right hand ... on a separate
sheet of paper ...
the process was completed by them placing the two sheets of paper together
metween their hands and consciously dissolving right into left ... etc ...
You (and others) may like to try this simple exercise a number of times ,,, each
time you do it, you will go beneath layers of conditioning ... remember the
hands are connected to the conscious and unconscious brain and are our interface
with the world ...
If anyone wants any more information on this exercise, feel free to write to me
...
Christopher Wynter
----- Original Message -----
From: Fran Frankfort <larelsprngATnospamhotmail.com>
Sent: Thursday, 12 August 1999 8:11
Subject: Re: [K-list] Secret Shame .....
>
> HI Chris,
>
> I am noticing in the writings you send that you are pretty hard on Moms..I
> am not sure why, but speaking as a Mom ..you love your kids and do the best
> you can..do you have bad days? Yep..we all do...my mom did and so did I. Do
> I blame my stuff on her...nope..she did the best she could at the time and
> so do I...it just feels like you are really being unfairly biased and unduly
> harping on this..and quite honestly its beginning to annoy me.
>
> :-/
> Fran
>
>
>
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