To: K-list
Recieved: 1999/07/31 08:59
Subject: Re: [K-list] Memories of Trauma
From: Fredaann
On 1999/07/31 08:59, Fredaann posted thus to the K-list:
Christopher Wynter wrote:
>
> This is just a short note until I get this written up ...
>
sure, tickle our intrest. : )
> There are those who have repressed memories of trauma (particularly sexual
> trauma as a child) ...
>
I have wondered why this was unheard of until recient years, is this
new? the repressing of memories? some kind of evolution thing... I have
them, confirmed, but it seems the generation before me has expressed to
me that 'they' cant concieve of such a thing, (repressed memory that
is) therefore, dont ya know I have been brainwashed thru the media,
therapists ect... the generation before and after me have normal
memories, of the same issues, I seem to be the only kook who forgot : )
> >From the work I have been involved with I have come to understand the processes
> of transferrence between children and the nature of genetic memory.
>
> I have had a number of cases where an 'adult' memory of sexual trauma as a child
> did not in fact happen to the client ... but was either a genetic memory of
> sexual trauma to either the mother or father ...
>
> or the client was close to someone as a child (particularly a sibling) who did
> suffer such a trauma.
>
> In other words, the memories you have are not necessarily your memories.
>
> In each case, I have been able to confirm either the genetic or transferred
> memory.
>
> However ... the manifestation in the body of the client was exactly the same as
> if the client him/herself had suffered the trauma directly.
>
> What you are dealing with is a body belief ... not a truth ... unless it can be
> proven ... that the incident did in fact happen to you ...
>
I set out to prove the memories were false, and found out more than I
had wanted to know, all this advice did for 'me' was prolong the moment
of truth, is it any wonder they think I'm nuts? first I had the
memories, and struggled with them alone, found it easier and 'best' if
I believed they were 'planted' and I defended those who were involved,
three years later I was accusing them. A few came clean when I ended up
on the mental ward.. but please DONT TELL.... it was the agreement when
the confessions came down. : (
> The treatment and the self reconciliation process is very different in each case
>
Do tell... you've piked my interest.
freda
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