To: K-list
Recieved: 1999/03/11 05:52
Subject: Re: [K-list] Anger
From: nancy
On 1999/03/11 05:52, nancy posted thus to the K-list:
molecularbreeze wrote:
> Llewellyn and you agree on the usefullness of anger. I happen to be in a
> stage where I have become painfully (angry) aware I live for the approval of
> others and am trying to learn how the heck to set boundaries for myself.
A suggestion: try to not "learn" how to set boundaries. Instinctively do it.
Feel it. Experience it. Sometimes thinking and learning are excuses not to act.
It can be scary. When you start setting boundaries, those people in your life
who were accustomed to invading you won't like it. You may, and probably will,
lose those whom you thought were friends and loved ones. You are no longer
playing the role they like in the relationship.
Shedding these so-called friends is like shedding dead skin. They no longer
serve you. When you let go of the old, you make room for the new.
If you have the courage to start setting boundaries, you will express yourself
more truthfully. This will alter your life--for the better (at least that's my
experience). Your beautiful soul will shine through and attract other beautiful
souls who support you, anger and all.
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