To: K-list
Recieved: 1999/03/10 22:23
Subject: Re: Fwd: Re: [K-list] Asking to be Abused?
From: Gloria Greco
On 1999/03/10 22:23, Gloria Greco posted thus to the K-list:
Catherine Berger wrote:
>
> ---Gloria Greco <lodpressATnospamintercomm.com> wrote:
> >
> > Catherine Berger wrote:
> > >
> Eventually,
> > > suffering is recognized as unnecessary. A more enlightened
> > > understanding is that both sadist and masochist need God's healing
> > > forgiveness in order to free themselves from the many bonds they
> have
> > > created to suffering. This is not a comment on whether the sadist
> or
> > > the masochist are good/bad, right/wrong, or who has the most karma.
> > > The object is to rise above the duality, and abandon the entire
> process.
> > >
> > > If you do not wish to be forgiven, you will not be. No worries.
> :-)
> > >
> > > Cathy
> >
> > Gloria:
> > You put this very well Cathy. Thanks for sharing. You can see this
> is a
> > hot topic.
> > >
>
> Thank you Gloria. I can see from your other posts that you have
> observed some of this yourself. I was in one of those
> exciting/abusive up/down relationships myself, but I finally called it
> quits when I realized what was happening. You are so wise to point
> this out to your daughter, rather than getting caught up in the
> emotion of anger toward her exes.
>
> Cathy
Gloria:
It is just life, not good or bad, those unfortunate souls who are lost
in that negative energy as perpatrators usually were victims at an
earlier time.
I am also a foster parent. The children who come to us are normally
sexually or physically abused or both, normally they go together. In
fact right now as we speak our girls are talking about the counseling
session they just came back from for sexual physical abuse, it is
something we try to deal with as early as possible so that they don't
keep the abuse chain going. It is a very real human circumstance which
comes through negative energy, it lives on it and eventually breeds back
on itself. Nobody involved goes unaffected. So in a real sense they all
become victims of the lower energy. There are so many reasons that it
can manifest spiritually that it is better to just turn it over to God.
When the kids learn how to communicate their experience and listen to
others, it does help. I don't encourage them to be hateful or angry,
even when they have every right to be. Instead, we talk about how it
comes about, how an individual who does these acts is really very sick
and needs help but often just doesn't know it. I also tell them when
they are angry and bitter, although natural emotions, it effects who
they are as a person because the heart grows hard and sinicle. So they
get hurt again from the same individual. When they let it go by giving
it to God and even praying for the individual, they are healed of their
own hate and anger plus you really do send love to the other person.
These are difficult lessons to swallow but you know what, it really can
be overcome.
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