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Recieved: 1999/03/10 13:31
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From: Maureen Heffernan

> The problem is, you started talking about non-consensual abusers,
> especially men who abuse women, but you shifted into attacking people
> who
> enjoy and use consensual SM...
  * * *
Yes,and I think another problem is the two differing concepts but the
same word,sadist. One involves game playing and fun (?) and the other
involves a reality of starvation,burns,or the one you loved now breaking
your bones and threatening to kill you and blaming you for it.Some,as
myself, having endured way too much from different sadists hands in real
life have difficulty in understanding why anyone would play a game of
it.It would be as much fun as telling a Jewish person let's play a game
of Aushwitz.Maybe the terminology is getting in our way. Maybe,for
myself I could write the word game/sadist , but it stills screams
oxymoron to me.But if one is a game and one is real at minimum it is at
least a little clearer. I hope.
+ Maureen

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