To: K-list
Recieved: 1999/03/07 18:37
Subject: Re: [K-list] relationships
From: Miri
On 1999/03/07 18:37, Miri posted thus to the K-list:
Candewtoo,
I'm surprised that it's even a discussion here, as opposed to the title of
the list. I should never have responded to it myself.
But then, it seems as if it's more of a draw than my latest post on dreams.
Interesting.
Apologies to Charles if I have misunderstood him.......but I definitely
disagree with the idea that a harmed person is to blame for that harm.
But this is the last I'll say about it, wanting to discuss the TOPIC
of the LIST.
>Hang in there Charles. You are definitely onto something.
>
>I am quite surprised that members of this list who seem to have some idea of
>the complexity of relationships, human desires and how people seek to realize
>them are backing into the convenient victimology that offers a totally
>inadequate explanation for the phenomenon of abuse.
>There is very little question that victims often gain a perverse and inverted
>sense of power from their role as victims. I think it is a shame that so many
>forces in the culture feed this sense of power. I am truly disappointed that
>members of this list are so ready to join that bandwagon.
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