To: K-list
Recieved: 1999/01/14 15:10
Subject: Re: [K-list] This is no game, this divine play
From: Wim Borsboom

Dear Freda,

Harsha wrote:
>Hug the person to the left and then to the right. No hard squeezes please.
I'm sure he meant loving firm squeezes.

I wrote:
>...willingness to be squeezed a little too hard.
>It presses the tears out of you.

I'm sure I meant loving firm squeezes.
The tears I mentioned are tears of happiness.
I'm sure that I meant that.

But, you are right, those lines of mine can be interpreted the way you did.
I am sorry for that, please will you accept that, I plead you, gently enough.
Please interpret what I wrote as sympathy. If you didn't feel it, can you
still give it another chance?

Don't be the one that that makes your own very valid words come true.
As you wrote: >although I have seen it right out refused.

I'll let it be for a while. Time to reflect.
Once a person is entrenched it is hard pull oneself up out the digs.
One is so afraid that one shows weekness, while in fact when one emerges a
glorious smile is the only thing that shows.

You are a horse lover. Did you see that movie or read the book: "The Horse
Whisperer?"
I had to learn a lot from that movie, I am still working things out.

I'm ready to hug again,....

Wim

Wim

At 12:57 PM 1/14/99 -0800, freda wrote:
>>
>> Dear fellow human / divine beings,
><snip>
>>We have a similar thing...: the group hug.
>>It "Undoes" and does a "Full Restore" to our originality.
>>It has to be condition-less for it to work.
>>Frankness, trust, respect and sympathy are part of that condition-free
>>dynamic.
>>And... willingness to be squeezed a little too hard, sometimes:
>>It presses the tears out of you.
>
>BIG no thank you to the group hug.
>this particular hug goes further than I am willing to go, I havent heard
>the frankness, I dont feel the trust, <trust me>. I have not witnessed
>respect and I havent seen anyone here asking for or seeking sympathy,
>although I have seen it right out refused.
>With the conditions of THIS condition-free hug, I pass.
>
>I've learned to cry without the violence.
>
>freda
>
>

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