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To: K-list
Recieved: 1999/01/04 13:07
Subject: Re: [K-list] People Bugging
From: Holly N. Barrett, Ph.D.

On 1999/01/04 13:07, Holly N. Barrett, Ph.D. posted thus to the K-list:

You'll have to set some limits with her in order to control your own
hostility -- she is anxious, trying to make contact but instead is
overrunning you with words which is why you feel wiped out. Oddly
enough, setting limits may actually calm her down some IF you can
figure out what would make her feel penetrated, gotten to. With some
people, it's touch, so you hug them and say you care at the same time
you're indicating that you're out of time and must leave. Others keep
looking for some signal that they've been heard. If you know her well
enough, you can ask her directly what would feel good to her. If not,
you'll need to observe her to see what tends to work. The degree to
which she is wiping you out suggests to me that her anxiety is great
and she needs to hear some kind of message that says "You're here and
I'm here and I SEE you!" Maybe if you called HER once a day for 3
minutes. Forget about her being present enough to see you, at least
for the time being. Good luck! Holly

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