To: K-list
Recieved: 2004/03/30 02:43
Subject: Re: [K-list] Passive aggression, the Shadow, and the spiritualp
From: Sabrina Gould
On 2004/03/30 02:43, Sabrina Gould posted thus to the K-list:
----- Original Message -----
From: "Mia Friedrich" <miafriedrichATLINCSAT.COM>
> Hi Sabrina,
>
> i think it's important to differentiate between somebody like all of us
who
> is sometimes falling into a passive-aggressive behaviour and somebody who
is
> using passive-aggressive behaviour as a control mechanism on a constant
> basis.
I am both, depending on when you catch me.
> The first is something i consider " normal" and i certainly wouldn't run
> from it, but learn from it and use the experience as a mirror.
> What i was referring to are people who " cultivate" passive-aggressiveness
> into a kind of life-style and build their lives and relationships around
> this pattern.
> This is NOT something i want to deal with any longer, because i personally
> feel, i've had it, i dealt with it, i learned from it and i got the
lesson,
> thank you very much, thanks but no thanks.
Hmmm...well, now that I'm starting to identify the patterns, I'm focusing on
healing them within myself, and communicating with other passive-aggressive
types who are already part of my life. So, I certainly don't need to add a
new PA friendship on top of that!!! Especially if I can foresee vampire game
burn-out down the road...which was the case with the aforementioned friend.
It was, like, I like you but this is gonna get old REAL fast with both of us
playing this role...so see ya!
Sabrina
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