To: K-list
Recieved: 2002/02/05 04:07
Subject: Re: [K-list] Paying for that first kiss
From: Mystress Angelique Serpent

At 11:08 AM 04/02/02, Paul Perner wrote:
>We live together, so it's not like I can just brush
>it off and not see her. She comes home ready to
>shoot venom at the first target she sees and my
>impulse is to run for the back door..... but my
>doing that causes even more discord. So I sit
>down with her and try to reason, but she finds a
>negative angle on anything and everything I say.
>In the end I feel physically wrung out and beaten
>down. All my spirituality doesn't seem to help.

    What happens if you stop trying to change her? What if you cease
resisting and reasoning and simply listen with acceptance? Karma Vampire
games... she is spewing her karma at you, all you really have to do is
accept it and surrender it on her behalf.

    War of the sexes... men always want to fix things, and get very
frustrated when they hear things they cannot fix. Most women just want an
attentive ear to be a sounding board... let them talk long enough, they
sort things out for themselves.

    Of course, I am not always so perfect at this, myself... Dom nature
makes for resistance on autopilot... but if I can catch myself in time,
stay grounded and simply accept and surrender, the result is miraculous.
Just like with Kundalini, it is my own resistance that gets me beat up.
 Blessings...

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